Have a couple of glasses of wine, start Googling and see what turns you both on, or find something you can learn to take some sex notes. Your guy may never come out and say it, but chances are your special someone wishes you knew certain things that would make him feel more special, sexy, and confident about your relationship.
Just because he won't tell you himself doesn't mean, you should ignored them. Allow yourself to experiment and figure out what he's into :
1. Buy And Wear Sexy Lingerie
2. Dress Up And Wear A Pretty Scent.
Guys like it when you smell and look great. Unfortunately, we often times only dress up when we go out because of who is going to see us. Dress up especially for your guy. "Go the distance to look good."
Guys like it when you smell and look great. Unfortunately, we often times only dress up when we go out because of who is going to see us. Dress up especially for your guy. "Go the distance to look good."
3. Introduce Some New Ideas Into Your Sexual Relationship.
Novelty and newness are important to both passionate love and sexuality for men. The burning desire you both felt when first dating hasn’t been extinguished, you just need to find new ways to stroke the fire and rekindle the flame. You can make sex feel new and naughty. Get creative and go for it!
Novelty and newness are important to both passionate love and sexuality for men. The burning desire you both felt when first dating hasn’t been extinguished, you just need to find new ways to stroke the fire and rekindle the flame. You can make sex feel new and naughty. Get creative and go for it!
4. Making Your Own Sex Toys And Erotic Accessories.
Do pick up some bottles of scented massage oils and a book on massage tips, scented candles, cook delicious dinners/desserts. It’s time to get a bit more creative and come of with brand new ways to surprise and excite your guy in and out of bedroom.
Do pick up some bottles of scented massage oils and a book on massage tips, scented candles, cook delicious dinners/desserts. It’s time to get a bit more creative and come of with brand new ways to surprise and excite your guy in and out of bedroom.
5. Touch Him.
Even if you've been together for years, allow yourself to use casual touch in your day-to-day interactions with your guy. Guys still love it when you caress them, brush his hair, touch his chin, hold his hand, stroke his arm, and kiss him. All humans require affectionate touch and it is a necessary aspect of an intimate relationship creating a stronger sense of closeness and emotional connection.
Even if you've been together for years, allow yourself to use casual touch in your day-to-day interactions with your guy. Guys still love it when you caress them, brush his hair, touch his chin, hold his hand, stroke his arm, and kiss him. All humans require affectionate touch and it is a necessary aspect of an intimate relationship creating a stronger sense of closeness and emotional connection.
6. Develop Sex Signals.
Some couples have their own personal ways of telling each other, they're interested in having sex. Touch yourself while you catch your guy, gaze across the room. Give him a mischievous wink. Lick or bite your lip ever so slightly. Develop a signal to tell him, you're on. So don’t be shy to capitalize on these cues. Use that creative force to make something beautiful and then go and make some love!
Some couples have their own personal ways of telling each other, they're interested in having sex. Touch yourself while you catch your guy, gaze across the room. Give him a mischievous wink. Lick or bite your lip ever so slightly. Develop a signal to tell him, you're on. So don’t be shy to capitalize on these cues. Use that creative force to make something beautiful and then go and make some love!
7. Talk About Sex, In And Out Of The Bedroom.
Spend time exploring your boundaries to nurture and expand the intimacy that you share with your partner. In order to connect with your partner on a deeper level, you have to get in harmony on this aspect as well. Talk about your boundaries. Work through your issues. Stretch your understanding of each other and learn to negotiate. This allow you to experience something different and novel, to shock your system into feeling something new and interesting...
Spend time exploring your boundaries to nurture and expand the intimacy that you share with your partner. In order to connect with your partner on a deeper level, you have to get in harmony on this aspect as well. Talk about your boundaries. Work through your issues. Stretch your understanding of each other and learn to negotiate. This allow you to experience something different and novel, to shock your system into feeling something new and interesting...
8. Ask Him To Describe His Sexual Fantasies To You.
Be vocal and Speak up! . Talk about your fantasies and encourage him to explore his in depth, not just those which are explicitly sexual, but all his dreams and desires. Sex life is about sharing something erotic with your lover! Because everyone's fantasy is different, it's tough to get specific. Hearing these devious acts put into actual words can be a major turn-on.
Be vocal and Speak up! . Talk about your fantasies and encourage him to explore his in depth, not just those which are explicitly sexual, but all his dreams and desires. Sex life is about sharing something erotic with your lover! Because everyone's fantasy is different, it's tough to get specific. Hearing these devious acts put into actual words can be a major turn-on.
9. Initiate Sex.
Use the element of surprise and woo him once in awhile. It also gives him, your partner who normally pursues sex, an extra ego boost to feel attractive and wanted.
Use the element of surprise and woo him once in awhile. It also gives him, your partner who normally pursues sex, an extra ego boost to feel attractive and wanted.
10. Indulge Him, Because He's Really A Softy.
Remember, guys aren't tough cookies. Once in awhile, when he's feeling down, you need to put the Band Aid on for your man. You can suggest a deeper and more relaxing erotic massage to help him relax. Do whatever you can, but don’t overdo it. Whisper sweet nothings into his ear, as you rub him down. He’ll appreciate this massage, since it’s both arousing and healthy.
Remember, guys aren't tough cookies. Once in awhile, when he's feeling down, you need to put the Band Aid on for your man. You can suggest a deeper and more relaxing erotic massage to help him relax. Do whatever you can, but don’t overdo it. Whisper sweet nothings into his ear, as you rub him down. He’ll appreciate this massage, since it’s both arousing and healthy.
Ps : Tease your man, right and you’ll have him begging for more. He’ll love them-- it’s really a win-win....." ;)
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