12 Signs That You Should End Your Relationship

Most couples have rough patches. Many are oblivious, to the signs pointing to trouble in the relationship.

If you are having a rough time in your relationship and can't decide IF IT'S OVER.

                      Here are some telltale signs that you may need to move on ...


1.) You DON'T WANT TO SPEND TIME with your partner and often find yourself looking for EXCUSES to avoid spending time with one another.

2.) You find yourself REMINISCING about the PAST and EMOTION, you used to feel. The intensity of your emotion will DISSIPATE some, once you have PAST THE HONEYMOON stage.

This means that you NO LONGER have the FEELING towards your partner, that you used to. If you look deep inside and you're HONEST WITH YOURSELF. You will know, when the LOVE IS GONE.

3.)You have to COMPROMISE YOUR BELIEFS, VALUES, and HAPPINESS. In order to make your partner's happy or to AVOID DISPUTES with them.

4.) You NO LONGER find your partner ATTRACTIVE or you may have CHANGE YOUR APPEARANCE drastically hoping to be attractive to your partner.

5.) You are NOT ALLOWED to have closed friends or close relationship with your family. Your partner may be POSSESSIVE and get JEALOUS, when you try to pursue any relationship. Besides the one, you have with them.

6.) You are ENGAGING in repetitive QUARELLS/FIGHTS that serve no purpose.

7.) You NO LONGER want your partner to KISS you. You may try, to AVOID PHYSICAL CONTACT all together.

8.) You LOOK FORWARD to the the times you are APART and DREAD the times when you are together.

9.) You DON'T WANT to try FIND SOLUTION for a problem. You just DON'T CARE ANYMORE.

10.) You DON'T COMMUNICATE except when you absolutely HAVE TO.

11.) You can NO LONGER VISUALIZE yourself, spending the rest of your life with your partner. You can ONLY SEE, spending the rest of your life WITHOUT THEM.

12.) You DON'T HAVE the same long-term GOALS.

Deciding to end a relationship, should be taken very seriously. It should not be done on a whim. It also takes a lot of thought.

Most importantly, a relationship should bring you joy and fulfil your needs. Relationship are supposed to add to the quality of your life, not take away from it ...