A good woman is hard to find, so when you find one. Don't ruin your chances with her by making any one of this mistakes. Remember, that a desirable woman has probably dated a lot of men and most probably know what is going on.
So when you make one of those mistakes. They DISAPPEAR on you before, you ever realize that you have done something WRONG !!!
1.) You SHARE your feeling with a woman TOO EARLY.
- Once you tell a woman that you LOVE her. You have LOSE the MYSTERY, the SPARK and the EXCITEMENT of the chase.
You have to remain CASUAL in the early stages of dating.
- You should only share your feelings once you both have gotten to know each others well. You also have to understand that you CAN'T CONVINCE someone to FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU. When you fall in love, it happens outside of your conscious mind. Remember, that we don't choose who we fall in love with.
2.) Moving much TOO QUICKLY.
- Its normal to wonder how YOUR FUTURE with each other will TURN OUT. But if you start TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE after only one month of dating. YOU will most likely send that woman RUNNING FOR THE DOOR.
- Just because you REALLY LIKE that one woman, doesn't mean that you should RUSH INTO anything faster than they naturally progress.
- Think about your FRIENDSHIPS, the progress of friendships that naturally progress. It is VERY RARE that you find someone who wants to become BEST BUDDIES overnight.
- The BEST RULE you can follow is ' SLOWER THE BETTER. '
3.) You are TOO AVAILABLE.
- You may think that if you say YOU'RE BUSY. You're playing a MIND GAME or being MANIPULATIVE. The TRUTH is, we always try TO ACT a certain way, in order TO ACHIEVE a certain outcome. We are all manipulative at some point. The POINT is to NOT ALLOW any manipulation HURT your partner.
- The BEST WAY to start a HEALTHY relationship is NOT TO make your new girlfriend the CENTRE OF YOUR LIFE. If she DOES NOT UNDERSTAND that you have a life of your own.
" SHE IS NOT FOR YOU. "
- You have TO BE who you were BEFORE you met this woman. You should continue BEING YOURSELF and NOT TRICK her into thinking you're something that YOU'RE NOT.
4.) Be YOURSELF, stop looking for her approval.
- We, as women LOVE man who is CONFIDENT and has STRONG SENSE of SELF-WORTH. Men often try TO GUESS at how we want them TO ACT and try TO ACCOMODATE.
- This leave NO ROOM for your OWN PERSONALITY to shine. You have to be COMFORTABLE being yourself. You have to show that YOU'RE NOT AFRAID of being yourself. This is VERY ATTRACTIVE to women.
5.) Buying ways TOO MANY GIFTS.
- When you have only know a woman for a few weeks and have been showering her with EXPENSIVE GIFTS. You have RUINED any chance of a REAL relationship.
- Expensive gifts are for couples that are in a LONG-TERM relationship. If you BUY them TOO EARLY, it can have a NEGATIVE EFFECT on your relationship.
Those are the top five mistakes that men make when they are dating a woman. If you can avoid these mistakes, you will increase your chances of succeeding in your relationship.
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